101年的室友

Try to reach out to your new roommate or suitemates on our roommate matching software over the summer and negotiate who will be bringing what for the room.

Here’s a tip: In order to maximize the space in your room or suite, it might be best not to have two or three or FOUR of everything! This will help alleviate some confusion and clutter on move in day and beyond.

Now that you have a new roommate and/or suitemates, it is important to set up ground rules as soon as possible. At Coker, we provide each room with a roommate contract. This document’s purpose is to verbally negotiate rules for quiet time in the room, 关于陪伴和访客的规则, 和清洁.

Here’s a tip: When discussing, be willing to negotiate. 例如, “我们可以在工作日晚上有客人过来, except for Tuesdays and Thursdays since I have an early class on Wednesday and Friday. 交易?”

If you ever realize your roommate is 研究ing or sleeping, it may not be a good idea to blast your music or play video games with friends. 体贴 and respectful of your roommate and request the same respect from them. Always keep your room’s ground rules in mind.

Here’s a tip: If you are sleeping and your roommate is loudly talking on the phone, 轻轻地问:“嘿, 你介意小点声吗? 我不会睡太久的.”

无论是食物, 或者一支铅笔, 或者笔记本电脑, always ask permission to use your roommate’s or suitemates’ belongings. We want you to be comfortable with your roommate, 但是出于考虑, 询问总是有礼貌的. Think of how you would feel if you noticed your snacks were missing and your roommate ate them without asking for permission.

Here’s a tip if this ever happens: “Hey_____, I noticed some of my cereal was missing. I know they are delicious and I don’t mind sharing, but if you could ask next time I would really appreciate it.(当然是带着微笑!)

Your roommate and suitemates will be the same for an entire school year. Don’t be afraid to 添加ress your roommate issues head on. 清晰的沟通是关键! Think of it this way: If you don’t say anything, how will your roommate or suitemates ever know what’s bothering you?

Here’s a tip: Be clear and concise about the issue and have a plan in mind to resolve it. Hear your roommates out and be respectful of their feelings. This will open up a space for your roommate issues to stop happening. 也, reach out to your Resident Assistant if you need to—they are trained to help you both talk through these kind of things.

At Coker, we know that everyone has different opinions on what is clean and what is messy. Do your part in making sure the room and bathroom is clean. We take your health and safety very seriously, so we ask that you do your part in preventing any fire hazards, mold or mildew or anything else that could potentially affect your health or well-being.

Here’s a tip: You may want to make a cleaning schedule with your roommates and especially your suitemates if you share a bathroom. Cleaning and keeping air flowing through the restroom is essential to keeping mold and mildew away!

无法摆脱室友的痛苦? 不要害怕! Your RA (Resident Assistant) can come to the rescue! An RA is a student who lives in the halls with you and is trained to help you with your roommate issues. You should always feel comfortable talking to them first about anything, but especially problems within your room. If you have tried your best to resolve your roommate problems and your RA cannot help, the RA will notify the Office of 居住生活 and that department can help you explore other residential options.

在科克公司, we know it can be rough moving into a Residence Hall and sharing space with others, but we promise to make your transition as smooth as possible. In some instances, roommates can become best friends—but in others, this may not be true. 这很正常! As long as you follow the guidelines that you set with your roommate or suitemates, 你已经尽了你的责任.

Here’s a tip: Most issues arise when roommates spend too much time in the room together. 在我们的大部分大厅里, we have lounges and common areas where you can watch movies and TV, 研究, 或者只是和新朋友呆在一起! 我们还有一张台球桌, ping-pong and air hockey on the porch in Memorial Hall that is open to everyone. So get out of the room and get moving—Coker has so much to offer!